Eomer is yet another one of my favorite characters. When we first meet him, he is not a very likable character. The three hunters are the first to encounter him and the riders of Rohan. You can tell that there is something on his mind that is troubling him, and he covers it with anger. The encounter is a short one, the three hunters simply wanted to know if they saw Merry and Pippin.
We soon find out that Eomer has been banished from Edoras, at the hands of his own uncle, who we know is not in his right mind. When Gandalf goes to Edoras, Theoden is liberated. Eomer now is free to return, though he doesn’t know it.
One of the best scenes is when Gandalf brings the Riders of Rohan to Helms Deep. As Eomer rides down the mountain, his face is terrifying! It’s no wonder the orcs started to panic and want to run away. Eomer is so passionate about saving his people.
Eomer’s role in the story is strengthened on the path toward Minas Tirith. Eowyn has put faith in Merry, whom she sees herself in. Eomer tells her that she and Merry know nothing of war. Eomer says this because he never EVER wants his sister to ever have to see the pains, horrors, and death of war. He hides his loving intentions with anger because he truly cares for her. He does what all men did at the time, showed his strength and manliness by hiding emotion.
My favorite, most heart wrenching scene is when Eomer finds his sister on the battlefield at Pellenor. He screams his lungs out, thinking she is dead. The emotion in that scene is massive. You can feel his pain. I love that scene! Acting done right! In this scene, he disregards the manly emotion hiding that he has stayed true to. It shows that love for family is more important than status.
As Eowyn is healing, Eomer is worried beyond belief. He is concerned for the health and safety of his only sister. And now that his uncle is dead, he is forced to take his place as king. To see him spending most of his time watching over his sister instead of tending to his new duties as king tells us that family is his first priority. He learned this when he thought his sister had died. He realized that his pushing her away only provoked rebellious actions.
Eomer represents our tendency to push others away in order to protect them. We learn from him that our families need our love and not our pushing. He also shows us that our families always love us, no matter how we treat them or they treat us. No matter what, we are loved.